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Building confidence and perseverance: A journey from First Tee to cybersecurity

As a participant in First Tee – Delaware, Grace Lombardi said she learned not only the fundamentals of golf but also some of life’s most valuable lessons. Confidence and perseverance are values that have helped Grace overcome obstacles and carve a path into the world of cybersecurity, an industry where women are still a minority.

“Confidence empowered me to take on challenges, whether it was mastering complex security concepts, earning certifications or speaking up in technical discussions,” she said. “At the same time, perseverance kept me moving forward despite obstacles, from overcoming imposter syndrome to pushing through rigorous training and setbacks.”

Grace recently began working in AWS Professional Services, supporting national security as a cloud engineering consultant. In this role, she works with clients in the federal government, helping them leverage AWS solutions to enhance their operations.

Grace said she’s proud to work for an organization that’s a major supporter of First Tee. AWS joined First Tee as a Trustee in 2021. With a dedicated team, AWS supports participants through STEM programming, employee volunteerism and alumni support. In 2024, AWS invited a select First Tee alumni to AWS re:Invent, the world’s largest annual cloud computing conference.

At re:Invent, Grace was able to attend several workshops. “I highly encourage any First Tee alumni to attend re:Invent if they get the chance,” she said. “While it’s a tech conference, the wealth of knowledge, networking opportunities and exposure to innovation make it valuable for professionals in any field.”

Forging a path in cybersecurity

Golf isn’t easy, and resilience is a trait Grace picked up during her seven years as a First Tee participant.

She said it’s important for her to stay involved with the organization because she wants to give back to the next generation. “First Tee gave me the opportunity to have so many amazing experiences across the country, and I learned so much while meeting incredible people,” she said.

Grace always knew she wanted a career that would challenge her. When she was a high school sophomore, she got an invitation that would change her life. A friend asked her to tag along to a cybersecurity conference because he didn’t want to go alone. She participated in a digital capture-the-flag competition, and the rest is history.

“I had no idea what I was doing, but I had an absolute blast and learned so much from the other attendees,” she said. She was struck by how much people seemed to enjoy their work in cybersecurity, and a new career path was on her radar.

Grace enrolled in coding classes at a local community college, before attending Rochester Institute of Technology as an undergrad and graduate student. She spent more than two years working for federal agencies before joining AWS.

“Looking back, what started as an unexpected experience at a conference in high school turned into a fulfilling career built on curiosity, problem solving and a drive to make a real impact,” she said. She felt the same type of excitement at re:Invent. “It opened the door to incredible opportunities, deepened my technical knowledge and ultimately paved the way for my career at AWS,” she said.

“Grace’s story illustrates the powerful impact of relationships like AWS and First Tee in shaping future leaders,” said Ebony Taylor, head of global executive customer engagement at AWS Professional Services. “Her journey from learning golf fundamentals to becoming a cloud engineering consultant demonstrates how confidence and perseverance can drive success in technology fields.”

“At AWS, we value individuals who aren’t afraid to dive deep into new challenges and continuously learn. We’re proud to support organizations like First Tee that help develop well-rounded professionals who can make meaningful contributions to critical fields like cybersecurity, and we’re happy to create pathways for more talented individuals like Grace to thrive in technology careers,” Taylor said.

Learn more about the First Tee Alumni Network, which provides professional development and social opportunities across the country.

Meredith Speer’s journey from First Tee to a golf career

The game of golf is more than just a sport; it’s a powerful vehicle for personal growth, leadership and community. For Meredith Speer, First Tee has been an integral part of her journey, not just to become a skilled golfer but to pursue a career in the industry. Her story highlights the transformative impact of First Tee programs, which have helped shape her path on and off the golf course.

Meredith joined First Tee – Greater El Paso at 6, and when her family later moved to Cedar Park, Texas, she became involved with First Tee – Greater Austin. Female leaders at both chapters became mentors for Meredith, who soon realized she wanted golf to be a big part of her life.

“Kristi Albers started my love for the game by taking me under her wing and giving me lessons after every Saturday class,” Meredith said. “And Jennifer MacCurrach has been a mentor in so many aspects of my life – in and outside of golf.”

Meredith is currently enrolled in the PGA Golf Management Program at Sam Houston State University, where she was recently elected president of the PGM Student Association. This summer she’ll intern at Southern Hills Country Club, which has hosted three U.S. Opens and five PGA Championships.

“At this internship, I will be working in the golf performance center learning all about giving lessons and club fittings,” she said. “Along with that, I will get more experience working outside services and inside the golf shop getting more experience with merchandising.”

The First Tee College Scholarship Program is shaping future leaders

Meredith is a member of the First Tee College Scholarship Program. As a Scholar, she receives access to professional development opportunities, a dedicated mentor and financial support.

“The First Tee Scholarship Program has supported me in so many ways academically and socially,” she explained. “It’s given me the confidence I need to pursue a career in golf, and I’ve had the opportunity to hear from women who are already in the industry. Their stories have inspired me and assured me that success is possible.”

The First Tee College Scholarship Program is supported by generous partners like Chevron, which hosted a group of First Tee alumni at The Chevron Championship in Woodlands, Texas, last week. Meredith attended the event and networked with a variety of golf industry professionals.

“The alumni meetup at The Chevron Championship was one of the most amazing experiences,” Meredith said. “Getting to meet up with my fellow First Tee friends and watch the amazing LPGA golfers only solidified my choice of working in this industry.”

The First Tee Alumni Network helps connect past participants, providing networking opportunities, social events and job listings. Join now.

Coach Spotlight: Meet Mark J!

A Love for the Game That Started Early

Mark’s golf journey began at just 10 years old in Cleveland, Ohio. Back then, he was “shagging” balls for his dad using a baseball glove—a simple start that sparked a lifelong passion. By age 13, he had stepped into the world of caddying, a path that lasted seven years and led to some incredible memories, including carrying bags for National Long Drive Champion Evan “Big Cat” Williams and the legendary Byron Nelson.

From Golf Getaways to a Life in Pinehurst

After many years of annual golf trips to Pinehurst, Mark made the dream a reality when he retired and moved to the area full-time in 2013. Surrounded by the game he loves, Mark eventually found his way to First Tee through a fellow coach—and hasn’t looked back since. For him, it was the perfect way to stay connected to golf while giving back in a meaningful way. Since 2023, Coach Mark has been a dedicated volunteer with First Tee – Sandhills, bringing patience, energy, and heart to every class—especially when working with our youngest golfers. You’ll find him most often with the 5 and 6-year-olds, where his calm presence and encouraging words help our littlest participants grow in confidence and love for the game.

Coaching with Heart and Purpose

Whether he’s helping a player line up their putt or cheering them on after a solid swing, Mark finds joy in the little moments. He’s especially passionate about helping new golfers build confidence and develop their skills in a fun, supportive environment. “Being able to impart the First Tee’s life skills and values to young minds is why I continue to coach and support the organization,” he says.

Making Smiles, One Swing at a Time

For Coach Mark, it’s not just about golf—it’s about the joy that comes with growth. “My favorite moments are every time I see the excitement in a player’s reaction when they connect on a good shot and see it sail to its target,” he shares. “Those huge smiles make it all worthwhile for me.”

We couldn’t be more grateful to have Coach Mark as part of our First Tee family. His kindness, wisdom, and dedication make a lasting impact on every young golfer he meets. Thank you, Mark!

Player Spotlight: Meet Jameson!

A First Tee Journey That Spans States

Jameson’s golf journey began in St. Louis, where he took his first swings with First Tee. When his family relocated to North Carolina, one of the first things they did was find their local chapter. That’s when Jameson became part of First Tee – Sandhills, continuing his love for golf and growth through the game. At just 10 years old, Jameson is already making waves both on and off the golf course. A fourth-grader with a big heart and an even bigger love for the game, Jameson first discovered First Tee in St. Louis back in 2022. After his family moved to the Sandhills area, he quickly became part of the First Tee – Sandhills family in 2023—and we’ve been lucky to have him ever since!

Putting in the Work at Southern Pines

You can usually find Jameson out at Southern Pines Golf Club, where he’s been sharpening his skills with Coach Riley. Whether it’s practicing his short game or learning life lessons through golf, Jameson shows up with enthusiasm, a willingness to grow, and an energy that’s truly contagious.

More Than Just a Golfer

Off the course, Jameson is just as impressive. He has a creative side and enjoys drawing, has a growing interest in history, and loves spending time with his friends. Whether it’s video games, board games, capture the flag, or epic nerf battles, Jameson brings the same joyful spirit and sportsmanship to everything he does.

A First Tee Family Affair

Jameson doesn’t go on this First Tee journey alone—his younger sister Brooklyn is also part of the program! Together, they’ve turned their shared passion into a fun family connection that makes practices and events even more special.

Leading with Kindness and Character

Jameson is the kind of participant every coach hopes for. He comes to class ready to learn, gives his best effort in every activity, and always treats others with kindness and respect. His positive, uplifting attitude makes him a great friend to all and a true leader among his peers.

Living Out First Tee Values Every Day

Whether he’s celebrating a teammate’s great shot or offering encouragement after a tough round, Jameson embodies everything First Tee stands for. He’s proof that golf is more than just a game—it’s a way to grow, connect, and lead with heart. We are so excited to see all of Jameson’s accomplishments and growth throughout the rest of his journey with us at First Tee – Sandhills!

Junior Volunteer Spotlight: Max A.

A Love for Golf Begins

Max Anderson’s journey with First Tee – Sandhills has come full circle. Growing up in Laurinburg, NC, Max first experienced the program as a young participant, developing a love for golf that would shape his future. When his family moved to Pinehurst in 2019, his passion for the game continued to flourish. Along with his growing love for golf, one thing remained constant—his enjoyment of an ice-cold Orange Fanta, a course tradition that has stood the test of time!

From Player to Coach

It was around the age of 10 that Max realized golf was more than just a hobby; it was something he truly loved. The lessons he learned at First Tee—perseverance, confidence, and goal-setting all stuck with him, shaping both his game and his character. Now, as a Junior Volunteer Coach, he’s giving back to the program that gave him so much.

Making an Impact

For Max, coaching isn’t just about helping young golfers refine their skills—it’s about building connections and watching kids grow both on and off the course. One of his favorite parts of coaching is seeing participants step out of their shells and gain confidence. “I hope to leave a lasting impact, inspiring kids to work hard, believe in themselves, and see just how much they can achieve—both on and off the course. I hope the kiddos know that with dedication and heart, the sky’s the limit!” From player to coach, Max embodies what First Tee is all about—helping young people build confidence, develop skills, and achieve goals they once thought were impossible. We’re lucky to have him as part of our team!

Board Member Spotlight 2025: John T.

A Passion for Mentorship & Golf

Originally from the cold, snowy state of Michigan, John and his wife made the move to Pinehurst for a change of pace, drawn by the warmer weather and the promise of year-round golf. It didn’t take long for him to discover First Tee – Sandhills, where he found a meaningful way to combine his love of the game with his passion for working with young people.

In 2020, John joined us as a volunteer, eager to make a difference in the lives of kids in our community. From the very beginning, he embraced First Tee’s core values, serving as a role model and mentor while helping young golfers develop both their skills on the course and the character traits that will serve them for a lifetime. His dedication to setting a positive example and fostering confidence in kids made him a standout leader in our program.

From Coach to Curriculum Innovator

John’s commitment to First Tee only grew stronger over the years. He pursued additional training, becoming a Level II Coach to deepen his impact as an instructor and mentor. But his contributions didn’t stop there. John’s background in engineering allowed him to bring a unique perspective to our programming.

Recognizing the natural connection between golf and STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math), John played an instrumental role in shaping our STEM Camp Curriculum. By integrating concepts like physics, geometry, and aerodynamics into engaging, hands-on activities, he helped create a program that not only enhances kids’ golf skills but also sparks curiosity and critical thinking. His innovative approach has made STEM Camp one of the most exciting learning experiences we offer!

A New Chapter: Board of Directors

Now, John is taking his leadership to the next level as a member of our Board of Directors. His deep understanding of First Tee’s mission, coupled with his firsthand experience as a coach and mentor, makes him a valuable asset to our organization. He brings fresh ideas, enthusiasm, and a strategic vision that will help us continue to grow and impact even more young lives through the game of golf.

John’s journey from volunteer to board member is a testament to the power of passion, dedication, and community. We are incredibly grateful for his ongoing commitment to First Tee – Sandhills and excited to see the positive influence he will have in this new role.

Please join us in congratulating John on this well-deserved position! We can’t wait to see all the great things he will accomplish as part of our leadership team!

Volunteer Spotlight: Mike James

A Love for Sports and Service

Growing up in a small farming community in Michigan, Mike James was surrounded by the values of hard work, teamwork, and community spirit. Sports played a huge role in his upbringing, and from an early age, he developed a deep love for golf. Whether it was competing with friends or practicing his swing, the game quickly became a passion that would stay with him for a lifetime.

After graduating high school, Mike took a path of service, enlisting in the Marine Corps before joining the Fire Control division of the U.S. Forest Service. While attending San Diego State University, he continued his commitment to public service, eventually transitioning into a career as a park ranger. Over the course of 40 years, he dedicated himself to protecting and preserving the beauty of Washington State Parks, ensuring that future generations could enjoy the great outdoors.

A New Chapter in Pinehurst

In 2020, life brought Mike to Pinehurst under unexpected circumstances. After the passing of his wife, his daughter—who owns a home in the area, encouraged him to relocate and start fresh in a community known for its rich golf culture. Embracing the change, he settled into the Village of Pinehurst with his loyal Yorkie, Jackson, by his side.

For Mike, staying active and engaged was essential. With decades of experience mentoring young athletes, he sought an opportunity to continue making an impact. When he learned about First Tee – Sandhills, he immediately knew it was the perfect fit.

Making a Difference Through First Tee

Mike had always found joy in teaching sports to younger generations, but First Tee provided something special. A chance to not only share his love of golf but also help kids develop confidence, perseverance, and life skills along the way. Each program day became a highlight of his week, offering a sense of purpose and connection.

“I get such a sense of joy when I see a young person have an ‘AHA!’ moment—when they finally hit a golf shot they never thought was possible,” Mike shares. “At the end of our program days, I come home feeling energized and in a better mood. And, of course, my Yorkie, Jackson, thinks it’s time to play, making for a perfect day!”

A Legacy of Mentorship and Fun

Even in his 80s, Mike continues to prove that the love of the game, and the joy of giving back, can last a lifetime. His story is a testament to the power of mentorship and the impact a dedicated coach can have on young lives. Whether he’s guiding a nervous beginner or celebrating a child’s first great golf shot, Mike knows he is shaping more than just swings…he’s helping build confidence, character, and future game changers.

Through First Tee – Sandhills, Mike has found not only a way to stay connected to his lifelong passion but also a meaningful way to contribute to the next generation. His enthusiasm, kindness, and dedication remind us all that volunteering isn’t just about giving…it’s about growing, learning, and finding joy in the moments that matter.

First Tee Week: National campaign launches May 19 at the Charles Schwab Challenge, celebrating coaches who are game changers in their communities  

Parents call coaches the “unsung heroes of youth development.” First Tee will celebrate these mentors during its inaugural network-wide awareness campaign. 

Ponte Vedra Beach, Fla. (March 11, 2025) – Leading nonprofit youth development organization First Tee is launching a weeklong national awareness campaign to celebrate the impact of its coaches. By seamlessly integrating the game of golf with a life skills curriculum, First Tee creates active learning experiences that build character like inner strength, self-confidence and resilience that kids can carry to everything they do. 

Kicking off at the Charles Schwab Challenge in Fort Worth, Texas, from May 19-25, First Tee Week aims to engage communities across the country, encouraging them to celebrate the coaches who make a difference locally. Entitled “Dear Coach,” the campaign will feature a variety of in-person and online activities, including: 

  • First Tee will launch a new creative campaign, including an updated PSA that speaks to the power of youth sports coaches to instill confidence, values and life skills in the kids they serve. 
  • On Wednesday, May 21, First Tee will host a group of alumni at the PGA TOUR’s Charles Schwab Challenge, where they’ll hear from a panel on “The coach effect: The importance of coaches and the stories that shape us.” The panel will feature New Orleans Saints defensive end and First Tee – Phoenix alumnus Cameron Jordan alongside other First Tee alumni. 
  • First Tee chapters across the country will host a variety of activations, including a fundraising tournament at Winged Foot (Metropolitan New York), meet the coach night (San Francisco), golf marathons (Greater Baltimore, West Michigan) and more. Find a First Tee chapter in your area. 
  • First Tee’s corporate partners will celebrate First Tee Week in a variety of ways. “Dear Coach” content will appear at Topgolf and PGA TOUR Superstore locations across the country, with organizations like Golf Digest, the USGA and Morgan Stanley planning to highlight coach stories on their own channels. 
  • First Tee has launched a digital experience at FirstTee.org/DearCoach and social content featuring stories from participants, alumni and notable supporters like former NFL player Larry Fitzgerald and PGA TOUR professional Wyndham Clark on the incredible relationships between coaches and participants. Follow us on Instagram, Facebook and LinkedIn to engage. 

“Today’s kids and teens are facing new challenges, and parents are looking for character-building programs because they know strength of character is essential for overcoming obstacles,” said First Tee CEO Greg McLaughlin. “For nearly 30 years, our dedicated and trained coaches have set First Tee apart because we have developed a training system built on research-proven methods of positive youth development. We are excited to celebrate their contributions and raise awareness for their work during First Tee Week.” 

According to research from Harris Poll, 91% of parents agree that sports coaching should inspire their child to excel both on and off the field, and they believe coaches can impact their child’s ability to work well with others and be resilient in the face of challenges. 

First Tee’s network of 150 chapters engage more than 5,000 active, trained coaches who deliver a curriculum designed with input from youth development experts using golf as the platform. First Tee serves more than 3.1 million kids annually. 

Learn more about getting involved with First Tee. 

Volunteer Spotlight: Meet Shreve J!

For the past five years, Shreve Johnessee has been an invaluable part of First Tee – Sandhills, bringing his deep love for the game to our 12+ groups. His passion for golf began at the age of 10 in York, PA, inspired by his parents, both avid players. From high school golf to summer rounds, the game remained a constant in his life—even throughout his career as a dentist (because, as he jokes, “everyone knows every dentist plays golf!”).

Upon retiring, Shreve made the perfect move—to Pinehurst, the Cradle of American Golf. With a lifelong appreciation for the sport, he knew he wanted to give back. That’s what led him to First Tee, where he helps young players not only develop their golf skills but also build the values that make the game so unique—integrity, self-discipline, and personal growth.

Shreve’s passion for mentorship is evident in every session he leads. Whether he’s refining a teen’s putting technique or sharing stories about the lifelong friendships golf has given him, his goal remains the same: to spark in young people the same love for the game that has meant so much to him. We’re beyond grateful to have Shreve as part of the First Tee – Sandhills family. His dedication, warmth, and passion continue to inspire the next generation of golfers!

Coach Emily ‘is a mentor and role model’

It’s no secret that First Tee considers its coaches to be the most important ingredient in its success. All trained and background checked, First Tee coaches connect with participants to ensure each one feels safe and celebrated for the qualities that make them unique.

One coach who exemplifies First Tee’s mission is Emily Ortmeier of First Tee – Southern Colorado, who has been with the chapter for five years. “Emily Ortmeier is more than a coach; she is a mentor and role model,” said First Tee – Southern Colorado board member Jeff Stedman.

A former collegiate golfer, Emily leads by example and inspires participants to do their best on and off the golf course, according to her colleagues at First Tee – Southern Colorado.

“When a participant fails, Coach Emily is always there to console and encourage them to persevere,” said chapter CEO Sandy Johnson. “She uses these moments as learning opportunities that greatly help to develop the character of each participant, reassuring them that we must fail in order to learn how to succeed and get right back to pursuing our goals.”

Eagles for Impact at THE PLAYERS® Championship

As the eyes of the golf world turn to TPC Sawgrass for THE PLAYERS Championship 2025, there’s an extra reason to root for low scores. For every eagle or double eagle carded by the pros during the tournament, Morgan Stanley will donate $5,000 to support First Tee’s coach training efforts.

Last year, Emily was one of 107 coaches to benefit from Morgan Stanley’s generosity. She attended a Level 4 training in Monterey, California, and has advanced to the point where she now leads Level 1 trainings for new coaches. She’s trained 20 coaches in her region.

First Tee – Southern Colorado colleagues agree that Emily’s passion for making golf accessible to all kids is evident in her work. She’s helped 21 new schools and community centers begin offering First Tee programming over the last two years.

In fact, Emily means so much to the community that she was recently recognized with Southern Colorado Business Forum & Digest’s 40 Under 40 Award.

Coaches make the difference

According to research from First Tee and Harris Poll, 80% of parents believe there’s a shortage of high caliber coaches today. That’s why First Tee is committed to coach training and youth safety.

Nine out of 10 parents agree that coaches should help their child succeed both on and off the field, and parents view coaching as instrumental for teaching collaboration, resilience and leadership – all qualities that become even more important into adulthood.

Learn more about the importance of youth sports coaches.

February Participant Spotlight: Meet Brantley!

We are continuing on our Participant Spotlight Series with Brantley from our program at Talamore Golf Resort. Brantley was submitted by Coach Sarah S. for his commitment to personal growth, perseverance, and enthusiasm shown at every class! 

Brantley has been a First Tee – Sandhills participant since 2021, attending multiple program locations and growing his love for the game along the way. His favorite part of First Tee is the development and encouragement he receives from his coaches, who have helped him build both his skills and confidence on the course.

His advice to fellow participants? “Pay attention, practice, and most importantly—have fun!” Brantley knows that golf is all about learning and enjoying the process, and he encourages others to do the same.

When he’s not on the course, Brantley loves playing video games, hanging out with friends and siblings, and listening to music. He has three siblings, including his brother Rhett, who also enjoys First Tee programs. We’re so proud to have Brantley as part of our First Tee family, and look forward to seeing him grow even more throughout our programs!

New Employee Spotlight: Michelle Ashley

We’re thrilled to welcome Michelle to the First Tee – Sandhills team! With her passion for volunteering, love for golf, and impressive professional background, Michelle is already making a meaningful impact on our community. Let’s take a closer look at her story, her goals, and what makes her such a fantastic addition to our team!

From Corporate Excellence to Nonprofit Passion
After an 18-year career at Intel focused on project management and process efficiency, Michelle decided to take a step back from the corporate world and reevaluate her next chapter. A friend encouraged her to explore the nonprofit sector, and it immediately clicked. Combining her love of volunteering with her passion for golf, Michelle found First Tee to be the perfect place to make a difference in kids’ lives while staying connected to a game she loves.

For Michelle, the culture of giving back instilled during her time at Intel played a major role in shaping her journey to First Tee. Through community service days, fundraisers, and supply drives, Michelle learned firsthand the value of making a positive impact—and she’s bringing that same mindset to her new role.

Excitement for the Role: Helping Kids Thrive
What excites Michelle most about joining First Tee? Knowing that the work she does every day has a direct impact on the kids in our community. Whether it’s helping kids grow in confidence or seeing them embrace the game of golf, Michelle is committed to creating life-changing experiences for youth in the Sandhills area.

Life in Pinehurst and Personal Passions
Outside of work, Michelle leads an active and creative life. Since moving to Pinehurst in 2019 with her husband, she has fully embraced the community she loves. You’ll often find her out on the golf course, baking, traveling, or working on DIY projects at home with her two dogs, Birdie and Albie (short for Albatross 🐾). She counts her decision to move to Pinehurst as one of her proudest accomplishments—proof that prioritizing happiness can lead to incredible opportunities.

Advice for Working with Kids: Plant the Seed!
Michelle’s advice for anyone considering working with kids is heartfelt and inspiring: “If you think this may be your passion, don’t wait! Find a way to get involved, even if it seems small, and watch that seed grow.”

Goals at First Tee – Sandhills: Building a Lasting Impact
Michelle is eager to grow in her role, deepen her involvement in the community, and help First Tee continue its mission of empowering kids through character-building and life skills. Her focus is on creating meaningful connections and ensuring that every child has access to the transformative experiences that First Tee offers.

Join us in giving Michelle a warm welcome to the First Tee – Sandhills family! We’re so excited for the energy and dedication she’s bringing to the team and can’t wait to see the impact she’ll make on the kids in our community. Here’s to an incredible season ahead!