Best Friends Earn Same Honor

Samuel Nail and Caine Sivier, both Eagle Level participants at The First Tee of the Sandhills, have earned the national designation of The First Tee Scholar – Class of 2019.
  That is an exceptional feat considering only 90 high school seniors across the country were selected to this designation.
  The First Tee, a youth development organization that introduces young people to the game of golf and its inherent values, recognizes participants for exceptional achievement in academics, leadership, character development, and chapter and community involvement through The First Tee Scholars Program.
Nail and Sivier being selected for this designation, together, is a story of its own.
  Both moved to the Sandhills as middle schoolers, a tough environment to be the new kid in town, and through placement in advanced coursework, a friendship was formed.
  Six years later, their brotherly bond is undeniable.
  They both joined The First Tee around the same time of their move, Nail six years ago, Sivier five, where they have grown and progressed through the program simultaneously. One, a golf nut, the other a golf hobbyist.
  When opportunities arise, you’ll usually find them both raising their hand to participate.
  Last August they volunteered to install insulation in a crawl space at a Habitat Build, during Thanksgiving week they served 1,000 meals to families in need, and in January helped us move donated office furniture to our storage unit for future use.
  They’ve exemplified how applying use of goal ladders allows you to stay focused on your goals while planning for the future.
Both attended camps, separately, last summer that exposed them to their shared interest in engineering school.
  But, they’re not committed to an expertise, yet, as they want to experience the field as a whole, and from there, find their fit for graduate school and beyond.
Off the record, their parents feel very lucky their sons have one another as friends and would happily take the other as their son.
Truly, a great omen to their character.
It’s an honor for Nail and Sivier to be recognized on a national stage for their academic achievements and community involvement at such a young age. And doing it together, makes it even more special.
  With this designation, Nail and Sivier have been given the exclusive opportunity to apply for educational scholarship programs offered through The First Tee to attend a participating college or university.
  As coach Matt reaffirmed, these young men exemplify The First Tee’s Healthy Habits of School, Community and Family.
  While their college paths will take them in different directions, the bond they’ve formed in the Sandhills is sure to stick. Their future is bright and we are excited to see what it holds.
  Congratulations, Samuel and Caine!

Skills Series Geared to Help Kids Prepare for Local DCP Qualifier

Drive, Chip, and Putt has continued to gain momentum in the world of junior golf since its inception in 2013! As the name suggests, kids compete to score points in those three facets of the game. Next weekend you’ll have the opportunity to watch kiddos from all over the country compete in the National Drive, Chip and Putt Championship on the hallowed grounds of Augusta National Golf Club. These participants earned their spot in the finals via local, sub regional and regional qualifiers during summer and fall of 2018. Registration is already open for kiddos to take their shot to compete in this FUN and FREE Competition with Qualifiers taking place this summer for the 2020 National Championship. We are excited to see two (2) Sandhills area golf courses, Methodist University Golf Club and Pinewild Country Club, will host Local Qualifying for boys and girls, ages 7 to 15 on June 1 and June 8, respectively. To help kiddos get ready for the local qualifiers, we have partnered with PGA Professionals and Methodist PGM Students to allow participants to practice their Drive, Chip and Putt skills with valuable guidance and instruction from local teaching professionals. In addition, they will be exposed to the format of the Drive, Chip and Putt event, set up of each competition station and participate in a mock competition – allowing them to feel prepared to have a fun experience during the local qualifier in June! Our ‘Get Drive, Chip and Putt Ready’ Series will take place at Gates Four Golf & CC on April 7th, April 14th and April 28th. With a second series at Pinehurst No. 6 scheduled for April 28th, May 5th, May 19th and May 26th. Whether your junior wants to sign up to participate in the official Local Qualifier for Drive, Chip and Putt or is simply interested in seeing what it’s all about – these upcoming series are a perfect fit for additional exposure to the game of golf while picking up great tips. To learn more about the series, determine which age group your kiddos falls into and register, visit firstteesandhills.org/dcp.

The First Tee of the Sandhills Delves into the Meaning of Respect

Week one of spring programs is officially in the books. With our recent wet springs, we decided to kick off a week early, giving some wiggle room for possible make up dates. And thanks to a little luck from Mother Nature, the prior week’s yucky-ness subsided for a beautiful kick off week in the Sandhills. For the 110, or so kiddos, that attended PLAYer level programs, they kicked things off with a big ‘word of the week’ – Respect. Respect for Yourself. Respect for Others. Respect for our Surroundings – the golf course, our home, classroom, everywhere we live. But first, let me take a pause to provide you a snapshot. The overarching focus for participants in PLAYer level programs is to introduce playing the game of golf with special emphasis on learning The First Tee Code of Conduct, Core Values, Golf Skills and Healthy Habits – all while appreciating the etiquette and rules of the game. So when kiddos show up for that week’s ninety minute program, we leap frog right into all areas of focus. They play, they learn, they begin to appreciate, and they are encouraged to reflect on the activities of the day and its application to tomorrow. Back to Week One. Participants didn’t just learn the definition of Respect. They talked about it, broke it down, explored what it means, and figured out how they can show respect and apply it to future situations. Throughout class, kiddos were tasked with providing examples to one another on how they already show Respect and based off of what they learned, how they can begin to show Respect. Whether it be speaking to each other in a respectful manner or taking care of their golf clubs and equipment that they just ‘checked out’ for the next two months. And don’t worry. There was plenty of FUN to be had. Be it when they tried to conquer their balance in a Superman pose during warm ups, be the first kiddo to get to 21 points in a chipping game, or take off running down the first fairway to find the 200 yard marker while they were learning about the parts of the course. We are successful when these kiddos leave for the day having seamlessly learned a Core Value, a Golf Skill and Healthy Habit – all while having FUN! Next week, we will build on Showing Respect to talk about Courtesy Towards Others. An appropriate progression in skills. Now, the real question for you is this: Are you able to show Respect and Courtesy to your friends and foes when the final point of your upcoming interclub match comes down to the last hole? Win or Lose, how will you handle the situation?

A Night of Glow-tastic Fun

In a world where technology continues to strive to dominate our day, it’s reassuring to see that a mountain of glow sticks, illuminated golf balls, bee-bop music and some sweet treats can successfully engage a group of kiddos – at least for a few hours. As Pat McGowan pointed out – when you walk around these activities, you’re not going to see a cell phone, the kids are enjoying being in the moment, getting something positive out of their experience and simply being kids. Now, that makes for a breath of fresh air. And something worth writing about! Last weekend’s Glow Ball Night festivities in Fayetteville and Whispering Pines were truly a fun filled winter finale. A celebration where kids giggled, golfed and gamed with their new and old friends. 99 of them to be exact. Whether they were on the Galaxy Golf Course, Cosmic Tic-Tac-Toe board or competing in an intense game of Laser Toss – the real winner of the evening was FUN. Glow-tastic fun, that is. All thanks to Gates Four Golf & CC, Country Club of Whispering Pines, Pinehurst Resort and many of our highly enthusiastic volunteers! It’s just another nod to how successful we can be when Community comes together. Because, together, we can do so much! VIEW PHOTOS FROM THE NIGHT(S)

Local Chapter to Host Volunteer Orientation

Spring programs across the Sandhills will kick off in three weeks at golf courses, youth centers and ball fields near you. In an effort to achieve our vision – ensuring a diverse group of kids are provided the chance to develop and grow through mentorship and character education while enjoying the game of golf – we have set the lofty goal of expanding our program offerings to reach 27% more kiddos across 2019. So, how will we reach 27% more kiddos? A little less sleep and the help of more volunteers! If seeing kids grin ear to ear when they win their first round of putt-tac-toe, or squeal happily when they launch a rubber ducky out of the bunker excites you – or, even more, having a participant come back on week 3 and exclaim they took out the trash without being asked or studied a little longer and made their best grade on this week’s spelling test – we’d like to tell you more! To prepare for our March kick off, we are hosting Volunteer Orientation and Training on Tuesday, March 5 at Pinehurst No. 6 from 3:00pm – 5:00pm. Orientation and Training is open to all volunteers – whether you are returning, newly signed up or simply interested in what we are all about! The format provides an engaging and interactive overview of The First Tee’s positive youth development model, allowing volunteers to feel confident in their availability to assist with the delivery of the Life Skills Experience curriculum. During these sessions, we will facilitate a mock lesson plan, review safety standards, introduce The First Tee Coaching Philosophy, and answer any questions you may have. Anyone in the community that has a willingness to give their time as a positive youth mentor – through golf – is encouraged to attend to learn more. And, don’t worry! Attending doesn’t commit you to volunteering, it simply gives you a peek inside what we do. But, for those ready to commit, remember, you can be an asset to The First Tee of the Sandhills no matter your handicap or lack thereof! Interested? Reach out to Matthew Sullivan at 910.255.3035 or [email protected] to save a spot at Pinehurst No. 6 on March 5. We hope to see you in a few weeks!

Brighten Up Your Winter with a Glow Ball Night

Winter at The First Tee of the Sandhills can feel like an eternity, as our formal ‘off season’ from curriculum programs runs November through February. It’s always our goal to find fun, unique ways to keep existing participants engaged and connected while encouraging new families to check out our programs and meet our volunteers. Throughout ‘winter’ we’ve hosted Play Days, Skills Days, Bowling and more. As our winter calendar comes to a close, we’ve decided to celebrate by combining some of our favorite things – golf, bright lights, and food – into two fun nights for kids. On Friday, February 22 and Saturday, February 23 we’re hosting Glow Ball Night Events at Gates Four Golf & CC and the Country Club of Whispering Pines, respectively. The fun and games are open to all youth age 7 to 12. Past participation in The First Tee is not a requirement. While some golf experience is encouraged! Just imagine Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory converted into a glowing masterpiece and you get Night Golf. Participants will have their chance play a glow golf putting course, a cosmic corn hole challenge, illuminated tic-tac-toe and more! Friendly competition will ensue, by age group, with winners taking home glow-tastic prizes and dessert to top off a fun night indoors! There will be a staggered start for participants based on age. Seven and Eight year olds start first (between 4 – 6pm) with Eleven and Twelve year olds, last (around 7:00pm). This is a drop-off youth event. Space in the ballroom is limited, The First Tee of the Sandhills Staff and Trained Volunteers will be taking kiddos through the evening’s activities. Just think, a Date Night on behalf of The First Tee! Families must register in advance. Space will be limited! To learn more and get your family registered, visit firstteesandhills.org/glowball or call our office at 910.255.3035. We’re looking forward to a great winter finale!

Golf Provides Supportive Environment

This week I’ve been on a vacation of sorts in Ormond Beach, Florida with my mom, Pam. It’s our first trip out of town together, san the kiddos, since before they were born, 10 years ago. While we’ve been away, I’ve met a lot of really great people, including one in particular, Miguel Eugenio Collado, the proud father of three, including UCF Sophomore, Ana Laura Collado. Mr. Collado is completing his third year of a three year term on the Executive Committee for the Mexican Golf Federation where he serves as the National Youth Children Committee counselor, advocate and leader. What was most inspiring about getting to know Miguel over about four hours was his personal story with the game of golf. His oldest of three children, now 23, came to him at the age of 7 declaring he wanted to play golf. Dad, immediately concerned, because he had never played or been around the sport, was taken back by his young son’s maturity in stating, dad don’t worry about it, I’m going to figure it out. Miguel quickly realized that if he son had fallen in love with an activity, he wanted to be involved, to be able to understand the game and support his son’s endeavors. Now, three golfing children later, Mr. Collado still does not play the sport, but is deeply rooted in the game. Getting involved in the golf world in Mexico while his children were still young school age, Miguel saw something different about the sport. Everyone he met was welcoming, encouraging and positive role models. He truly loved what he was seeing about the people that played the sport and recognized he was an environment he wanted his children to grow up in. So, he began to get involved himself. Encouraging more families across Mexico to play the game, showing them the opportunities their children could gain by playing golf and coming to the United States for college. Paths that lead him to his current role with the Mexican Golf Federation. A volunteer role which keeps him incredibly busy traveling across Mexico, mentoring his representatives in each state, four times a year, and working with families to help them along their path. When you talk to Miguel about golf in Mexico, he truly lights up, expressing the positive impact the sport is having on the country and his family. He doesn’t speak about revenue or tourist impact, only about the Core Values he sees kids and families learning and applying through the sport. A pretty cool story to sit back and listen to from a man so far away from a local chapter of The First Tee. A family man who has seen the sport naturally make a positive impact on so many families and who is driven to keep progressing the game in the Mexican culture. I didn’t know I would meet Miguel Eugenio Collado during my vacation, but I’m sure glad I did! And, maybe, you’ll have the chance to meet him too, he hopes in the coming years his daughter will be eligible to play in the North and South Women’s Amateur right here in Pinehurst.

Applying the New Rules of Golf

New Year’s Day I was lucky enough to tee it up on Pinehurst No. 2. My first round on the course since moving back in 2015. I shot a larger than life number on the front but scrapped around an even par on the back nine that concluded with a birdie on 18! So, here we were, playing under the new Rules of Golf on the first day of the year. I was excited to see if any of the rules would come into play during our casual round. On the first green, I was delighted to tap down imperfections that interfered with the line between my ball and the hole. Possibly one of my favorite new rules of the game! Throughout the round, we didn’t have many new rules scenarios come up. Or so we thought! There was one drop taken from knee height. We wondered if the knees should, or could, be bent or if a straight leg was required. On another hole there was a wayward tee shot. We were pretty confident the ball went out – of – bounds but never found it, so determining which rule to play the next shot under became confusing.  Were we allowed to play the new OB rule or did we need to return to the tee hitting three? With the recent rain, we saw our share of loose impediments in the bunkers and happily removed those while ensuring our ball didn’t move. On a few longer putts we left the flag in, instead of having someone tend it, simply to keep up our pace of play. One rule we unintentionally may have broken involved standing behind a player once they began taking their shot. For example, when we had similar lines on the putting green. Luckily, this Tuesday I’m signed up to attend the Carolinas Golf Association Rules of Golf Seminar and I look forward to bringing up a few situations we had on course to see how they should have played out under the new Rules of Golf. As a side bar, if you’re interested in a Rules of Golf Seminar, the CGA is hosting many over the next few months, free of charge, visit their website and find one that works for you! As I’ve learned more about the changes to the Rules of Golf, one thing has become clear – while golf has always been a sport of Integrity, where players call infringements on themselves, today’s rules require a golfer to take on an even greater level of Honesty, Integrity and Judgment while on course. For example, in year’s past, the other player’s in your foursome, especially the individual assigned to keep your score, would be involved in the process of agreeing upon the line your ball crossed when entering a Hazard, now a penalty area, or agreeing that you took relief from a cart path or ground under repair, correctly. Today, those decisions and procedures do not require other members of the group to be involved or in agreement, the ownership lies simply on the golfer themselves. In fact, I’m not certain, but I believe there is much less expectation on members of your foursome to even track your shots and be able to provide input. Another example of applying honesty under the new rules comes into play with preferred lies. Previously you would be required to mark your ball, say with a tee, measure out a club length, with another tee, and replace your ball within the tee boundaries, no closer to the hole. Today, marking the ball is not required, you may simply lift the ball and place no closer to the hole. Then, there are some brand new rules, those about on course etiquette and player code of conduct. Rule 1 now introduces three simple principles of the game for the player. They include playing the course as you find it and the ball as it lies. Playing by the Rules and in the spirit of the game. And your personal responsibility for applying your own penalties if you breach a Rule. Today, more than ever, Golf’s uniqueness stands out. It’s truly a game that will teach and test us in how we apply Life Skills and Core Values on the golf course, and later, off the course. I’m excited to see how the game of golf evolves in 2019 while learning more about the Rules of Golf and their positive impact on our sport.    

Volunteers Step Up for The First Tee

To the best of our calculations, in 2018, volunteers have given 2,611 hours of their personal time to The First Tee of the Sandhills. Simply put, that’s 109 days! During those 156,630 minutes, their commitment allowed 724 kiddos to come through 64 programs offered in Moore and Cumberland County. For 9,397,800 seconds they left politics, careers and personal objectives at the door and came together to grow good kids through golf. Because of this special group of supporters, who’ve given 109 days, we’ve been able to expand our week day program offerings to new facilities, deliver classes to up to 18 kiddos at a time, and get more kids on the golf course! In addition to these special volunteers, is our golf course facility partners. They graciously open their doors to our programs and kiddos – welcoming us with open arms and supporting our weekly needs. Because of their year round support, we have a place to meet and provide positive experiences for kiddos. Like when their grinning ear to ear after finally winning a game of tic-tac-toe, or giggling because their chip shot almost got into the net! As you see, it takes community coming together for a nonprofit organization to be sustainable. In 2016, The First Tee of the Sandhills and Golf Pride formally announced a partnership which would support Volunteer Programs – one allowing us to ensure our volunteers were qualified and prepared for their role with the organization, appropriately trained locally and nationally, provided The First Tee apparel, to show consistency and togetherness to parents and facility guest, and later, opportunities to be thanked. Last week, was one of those opportunities as we welcomed guest to our 1st Annual Volunteer and Community Appreciation Celebration at Pinewild CC – a special evening where we began a new tradition within our community of The First Tee. It reminds me of the high school days were you received your letterman jacket or varsity pin. Then, later in college when you survived fraternity initiation and were pinned. But instead of being pinned we’ve created The First Tee of the Sandhills badges. These are a way for us to honor our volunteers, based on their tenure with our organization and frequency they are engaged annually – all of which who’ve given over 36 hours of time to The First Tee in the last two years! This year we honored 21 volunteers! We are grateful to be surrounded by such a great team and look forward to seeing what we can accomplish together in 2019 and how many more badges we can hand out next fall!

Community Answers the Challenge

“Like the health of one’s body, it is important to also explore the health of one’s community and discover how one can give back and care for its environment and safety.” – Community, one of The First Tee’s Nine Healthy Habits The First Tee of the Sandhills footprint stretches across an incredibly rural area of North Carolina – where extremely diverse demographics are deeply intertwined throughout communities. It’s our goal to bring more kiddos into Life Skills Curriculum programs, those who may need a scholarship and additional support to get involved. Thanks to corporate and community partners we are able to make our multi week curriculum programs high quality while keeping the cost as affordable as possible. Four years ago The First Tee of the Sandhills created a formal scholarship for youth attending our golf and life skills programs. Implementing a policy to never turn a child away, regardless of circumstances. While ensuring all scholarship youth are afforded the same opportunities for participation, equipment check out and between session special events. Since inception, over 900 participants attending The First Tee of the Sandhills multi week programs requested financial aid with 100% being approved! Last year we realized raising awareness and needed funds for this initiative would be key in 2017 and beyond – and that’s where The Fall Classic was born. Community members associated with area golf courses raised their hand to volunteer as a Captain – covering seven golf courses in Moore County – Country Club of North Carolina, Forest Creek Golf Club, Mid Pines Golf Club, Mid South Club, Pinehurst No. 6 & 7 and Pinewild Country Club. They eagerly ‘got to work’ recruiting friends, colleagues and golf group buddies to support the cause by signing up to participate in a friendly nine hole golf competition, or by sponsoring a hole. The commitment? Sponsor a Child for a future scholarship at The First Tee of the Sandhills. Then, throughout the month of October, over 230 community members raised their hand in support of the mission. Some heading out for a late afternoon competition, other putting a stake in the ground to acknowledge their commitment. And, this week, to add a layer of comradery in, the winning foursome from each of the seven facilities earned a coveted spot to represent their club in the Finale at Pinehurst No. 4! Captains, fellow participants, and spouses came out to watch the action late Wednesday afternoon – cheering on their respective facility. And when it was all said and done, the 2018 winners represented Forest Creek Golf Club! But, everyone in attendance agreed, the real winners were the kids. Thanks to the generosity of these local facilities, the captains, participants and sponsors – 390 program scholarships were raised. Hats off to a great year two of The Fall Classic. It’s an amazing tally, a humble feat, a celebration of community coming together! As Helen Keller once said, “Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” And much, they did, indeed.

‘Amazing Week’: Kenzel Competes At PURE Insurance Championship

The final words from Jaclyn Kenzel’s week at The PURE Insurance Championship in Pebble Beach, California were, “I can’t emphasize enough how much this trip has meant to me! It has been the most amazing week of my life and I will never forget it! I’m beyond thrilled to have had this opportunity! I have not only gained friends but created memories that will last a lifetime!” So, now that you know the conclusion, how did she get there? Let’s take a look at the highlight reel! The entire week included a long list of firsts – from flying across the country, staying in private housing, eating an omelet, playing golf in fog, paddle boarding, seeing new wilderness, and attending a concert! On Day 1 all the participants gathered at Poppy Hills GC for the PURE Welcome Party and Pairings release. Each junior went onto the putting green to find an oversized flag adorning their name and chapter they are representing. Underneath the flag was a brand new golf bag with their name on it and inside the bag they found the name of their pro. For Jaclyn, it was Brian Henninger. Mr. Henninger immediately came up to Jaclyn for introduction and a chat. She was beaming from ear to ear about the week getting started! Day 2 brought Jaclyn’s first practice round – at Poppy Hills GC with fellow junior participant, Vivian Guite from The First Tee of Naples. The highlight of their day on course included sharing the fairways with deer and ‘bumping’ into Bernard Langer. Wednesday evening participants attended a very special event called ‘Legends and Leaders’ where nine special guest spoke on the Nine Core Values, each highlighting a unique Core Value that carries special interest in their lives. While every guest had an amazing and inspiring story to tell – the two that resonated with Jaclyn the most were from Jeremy Poincenot and Victoria Arlen – speaking on Perseverance and Confidence. Oh, and she ‘bummed’ into Tom Watson at dinner! Thursday was Day 3, bringing many more special experiences for Kenzel. Not only did she get to play Pebble Beach Golf Links, she played with the 2016 tournament winner, Paul Broadhurst, who her Pinecrest High School golf teammate, Mara Hirtle, played with in 2017! When Kenzel reflected on the experience, she remembered how incredible the undulation changes were, both beautiful and challenging to play. She determined it’s completely impossible to become upset when you’re surrounded by the visual art Pebble Beach Golf Links provides. At the turn, she decided to apply good Judgment and began ‘clubbing up’ as her shots were coming up 10 yards shorter than they typically do in Pinehurst. This gave her some putts for birdie, resulting in made birdies on Holes 11 and 17! Also, while practicing on the 12th green, Paul Broadhurst pulled Jaclyn aside and gave her a few chipping pointers to work on when she gets home. Double score for the day! During the first and second rounds of the PURE Insurance Championship, Kenzel and Henninger would play Poppy Hills GC and Pebble Beach GL, each day with a different pair of amateur partners. Kenzel’s personal golf highlights including make a birdie on Hole 18 at BOTH courses! How cool! While #TeamHenninger didn’t make the Pro-Junior cut, it was truly an experience of a lifetime both on and off the course. And to cap off a week of excitement, as all the juniors were gathered around the 18th green of Pebble Beach GL watching the final groups come in, they witnessed Ken Tanigawa make a bomb of an eagle putt to win the tournament by one! What an ending to a dream week for Jaclyn Kenzel.

My last day at the PURE Insurance Championship

Today was my last day at the PURE Insurance Championship at Pebble Beach! While I hate having to say it’s the final day, it was definitely one to remember! We participated in a 7:30am Shotgun start event at Poppy Hills GC where we played a Ryder Cup style event. I was assigned Hole 16 to kick off the day and was paired with Calton Kong. We played against Grace Kehoe and Christopher Khan. The format was a scramble on Holes 10 – 18 and Best Ball on Holes 1 – 9. A few golf highlights from my morning included Birdies on Holes 11, 12, 13 and 18 with a final score of 67 (-4). We ended up just short of a trophy, finishing in 4th place. It was a really fun round though! My host family even came on the front nine and walked with us through Hole 9!  After lunch at Poppy Hills GC, we then headed towards Pebble Beach Golf Links to watch the final players come in! As soon as we got there and realized both Mr. Henninger and Mr. Broadhurst had finished, we rushed towards the players dining area to see if they were there. Sadly, I wasn’t able to catch Mr. Henninger but I did get to talk to Mr. Broadhurst about how his day went on the course. And what a cool end to the tournament. The winning Pro made a BOMB of an Eagle Putt on the 18th green to win by 1! Wow. Monday morning I have to be up at 2:00am because our flight leaves San Jose International Aiport at 6:55am. Whew!  I can’t emphasize enough how much this trip has meant to me! It has been the most amazing week of my life and I will never forget it! I’m really sad it has to end but am beyond thrilled to have had this opportunity! I have not only gained friends but created memories that will last a lifetime! Thank you for following along in my travels to California. It’s been fun to write about the trip and have a blog to look back on! Signing off with gratitude, Jaclyn Kenzel